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I've collected a list of my writings, some of them when I was angry. Many I believe to be wisdom, the rest are just things muddling my mind. Either way it should be interesting enough to cure your boredom for a while.
More Ranting on Weddings and Marriages
It's funny how love is the thing that people say they know most definitely in their lives...
and then is also the thing they find the most reason to defend...
and to defend to the death if a person states an opinion based on their own life that some how causes them to challenge their own values again.
That which is most true is also that which others need to acknowledge the least.
-Zoran
No offense meant...But weddings and marriages are so fucking stupid.
I remember when I was planning for my half assed wedding. The asshole wanted to cut corners everywhere. Then we just ended up getting married in the shittiest of towns, with the shittiest of company and the shittiest conditions.
A friend of mine is getting married.. and it already seems like its going to be a disaster. Its in November and she hasn't even gotten the invitations made yet.
Besides the fact I think that marriage is a joke.. I really find myself between a rock and a hard place when a friend of mine is getting married. What do I say? I don't want to be a hippocrite, but I also don't want to be rude and tell them the truth. (I just don't care.)
Maybe I should offer them a trust. A 300$ trust for their wedding so that they will be able to afford their divorce. (No, I'm not bitter.)
Its not just that I don't think marriages work, I just don't understand why someone would fuss so much over a stupid day thats going to cost a bajillion dollars. All this commotion over stupid traditions. Cake, Garter, Rings, Minister, DJ, choosing bridesmaids, best men, flower arrangements etc. Its a waste of money.
God forbid in the future I should change my mind about marriage... I would definetly not waste all the time, money and effort these girls go through to make their "oh so special day" go so well.
Maybe I am just bitter.
Maybe I'm bitter because I can't even dissillusion myself to believe in a future.. to believe in a 'forever'. (Because it isn't possible without need) And it isn't that I'm jealous of my friends ignorance or my friends' relationships.. because I'm not. I don't want to go and relearn all my lessons all over again..
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